One day,a professor asked his students "Why do we raise our voices when we are angry?"All the students though for a while.One answered is "Because we loose our cool.That's why we shout."The professor replied,"But the person is just right next to you,why can't you just talk softly and not shout?"After every one gave their opinions and share their thoughts,the Professor said:"When we are ANGRY,our heart drift apart.Because of this "distance",we instinctively shout instead of speaking in our normal tones,so the other party can hear us." But we shout.we get ANGRIER.And we feel we drift apart even further.So we shout even louder..."It is the opposite when we are in love.We do not shout,we whisper into each other ears.Why?"This is because our heart very close,almost never apart,as our love depends,we reach a state almost perfect communication where there is no need for words."We understand each other well enough just by exchanging look,"concluded the professor."Therefore when we are arguing,do not speaks words that will make our hearts drift apart.Wait a few days.When you feel your heart are not longer far apart,pick up the conversation and continued from there =)
~ Communication between old n young is not so difficult as you all think ~
~ Smile and be happy =) ~
~ Lee Choo ~
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